"Confessions of a Slave"
A Non-Fiction Eroticlog
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Confessions of a Slave - Part II Men will
often tell me that they don't understand the sensual art
of BDSM and that they could never 'hit' a woman, and to that I always
respond “I should hope not!” .... real men don't hit anyone, let alone
a female.
There is a genuine difference between the misogynist that feels women are there to be degraded, abused, smacked around and then tossed in the trash after they are through with them versus the dominate male that has this deep primal desire to bring mutually gratifying pleasures to his partner through sensual and delicate torture. It is true, real men don't 'hit' women! Sex is raw,
primal and sensual and should be enjoyed in its natural
form. When one party expects too much from another party or that
intimacy is given without emotion, it is often just a two-party orgasm
and some (I did say only 'some') participants are left wanting more and
needing something that was lacking from that two-hour event. However,
when BDSM is explored with sincerity between consenting individuals, it
allows each participant to be driven by what brings them pleasure and
allows them to pleasure their partners by fulfilling both of their
inner most darkest desires without being judged. When
engaging in BDSM and exploring the a delicate art of Dominance
and Submission (D&S), this allows one party to entrust their
personal safety in another and this experience can be highly erotic and
extremely fulfilling for both parties in a way that forced romance in a
GFE date can't provide. As a slave, just the shear delight in knowing
that you are to be taken to new heights at the whims and desires of
another person and that by surrendering to that person and allowing
them to control the moment of that heightened Ecstasy by surrendering
and allowing your body to feel and your mind to respond can be very
rewarding. At that very moment that when someone other than yourself is
in complete control of your every movement and response during this
limited time period that a Slave and the Master learn how it is to
indulge in such deep dark, carnal desires of complete sexual freedom.
For it is when the dominate partner who has allowed the slave to be
unfettered in their ability feeling every spank, every whip lashing and
every drop of hot wax in the most enticing manners and with every touch
of leather is a caring exchange of passion and sensuality is applied to
the slave's well being and complete excitement surges through the
Slave's body and thus giving the Master his ultimate compliment and
reward in knowing that this Master will be rewarded by the Slave's
ultimate desire to reciprocate above and beyond. Surrendering
to another partner is not giving up anything or
omitting anything, but instead it is gaining another form of that raw,
primal natural instinct that brings mutual gratification that can be
revisited in fantasy even when alone and all you have is the
scintillating stinging remnants of the hours before while basking in
the afterglow and allowing your nimble fingers to replay that moment in
private. Exploring
the realm of BDSM does not mean that one party beats or
bruises another with random abandon. It allows two mature and caring
individuals to share what they want and what they need in an openness
that is rarely explored in a GFE relationship. Many individuals that
choose to explore the sensual art of BDSM enter with the thought of
sensually tormenting their Slave while she is bound to a bed or a
doorway as they ravage her body and see how she responds to their
touch. By suppressing these carnal desires, many may never have the
opportunity to explore during a standard societal form of intimacy that
they may truly enjoy. Part II |