"Confessions of a Slave"
A Non-Fiction Eroticlog
Confessions of a
Submissive
Part IV - A Kiss: The Ultimate in Intimacy
Part IV - A Kiss: The Ultimate in Intimacy
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Kiss: The Ultimate in Intimacy
For the most part, in my professional world: I don’t kiss. And if this is a deal-breaker for many, so be it.
It’s my personal opinion, and I only said my personal opinion that a kiss is the single most erotic and intimate acts that any two people can share. I once thought that I was alone in this theory, but after talking to a number men in the vanilla world and my BDSM realm (clients and non-clients), I now believe that most feel the same way. There is something so sensual and seductive about a man teasing his partner until the perfect moment of contact when the lips touch, the mouth opens and there is this deep passion that burns from parts of the body no physiologist can explain nor have they explored. It's that gentle touching of my partner’s lips to mine that I feel is the single most intimate act any two people can indulge in.
In full honesty and true confessional style, I was engaged in my early 20’s to a very sexy man that I once believed I could spend the rest of my life with and that is why I accepted the proposal of marriage. When we kissed under the moonlight near the park, or on a long walk through the city late at night, or on the deck of a sailboat, his kisses could take me to the brink of ecstasy and back again without ever touching any other part of my body. This relationship taught me even more about my sensuality and sexuality than I could have imagined. I was smitten by the timing of the action and also the sensation of being aroused just with this simple act. The one thing that broke us up (because I’m always asked this question) was that this was as far as the relationship would ever go; if I married him, it would have been a sexless marriage and for someone like me, the kiss was just the beginning to my desires and not the only part. But the relationship taught me how intimate and sharing this action was; far beyond intercourse or oral sex. This was a part of another person that was rarely shared with a stranger. Kissing by itself can make or break a relationship even more so than intercourse. The prefect kiss can send a partner over the top and needing more just knowing that this action will lead to even more scintillating temptations.
I wax nostalgic when I recall the moments when my partners have teased and tormented me in devilishly delicious manners and then just as I was about to either give up on release or them, they plant this aggressive and erotic kiss on me. That alone can take me to the brink of pleasure and beyond. This is why I feel that the art of kissing is so intimate. It provides the type of physical stimulation that no matter how much rubbing or vibrating may occur in a date, those actions are still not a part of the person interacting with another with extreme intimacy. Heavy petting or bondage activities are controlled, contrived and expected. But there is hint of personalizing the act once the honor of a kiss is engaged into play. Take the ‘play rape’ scenario where I’m often tied up or bound in various manners and my hair is pulled back and without warning my reward in the form of appreciation for my submission is a deep long kiss is brought into play. I generally turn my head from a client before this action can occur, as this line of intimacy is something that I feel should always remain special and never engaged in to the point that it feels like it’s work or the same as a foot massage at the day spa. A kiss should always remain special and shared with someone that truly arouses.
When a client hires me as a professional he isn’t looking to fall in love or find his next wife with, (although some say they are), but instead indulge in activities that their current partner may find shocking; so I provide that fantasy and make it a reality and my servitude is their reward and fulfillment without a kiss. Most would prefer to spank my cute behind than to worry about kissing me.
While this may not make sense to many and I can‘t try to clarify the art of kissing any further because to some kissing isn’t intimacy, rather something that they feel they expect from a partner or what they have paid for. But for those that feel as I do, that a kiss is the ultimate in intimacy and share that act with only a select few; the rewards of passion are sinfully delicious and a sexual bond is sealed that will make the rest of the activities only seem like foreplay until the next first kiss.
A kiss should only be shared when there is an extreme level of excitement and trust with another person rather than tried with every person that comes across your path. Try that advice and learn to experience what many already know.
Part IVFor the most part, in my professional world: I don’t kiss. And if this is a deal-breaker for many, so be it.
It’s my personal opinion, and I only said my personal opinion that a kiss is the single most erotic and intimate acts that any two people can share. I once thought that I was alone in this theory, but after talking to a number men in the vanilla world and my BDSM realm (clients and non-clients), I now believe that most feel the same way. There is something so sensual and seductive about a man teasing his partner until the perfect moment of contact when the lips touch, the mouth opens and there is this deep passion that burns from parts of the body no physiologist can explain nor have they explored. It's that gentle touching of my partner’s lips to mine that I feel is the single most intimate act any two people can indulge in.
In full honesty and true confessional style, I was engaged in my early 20’s to a very sexy man that I once believed I could spend the rest of my life with and that is why I accepted the proposal of marriage. When we kissed under the moonlight near the park, or on a long walk through the city late at night, or on the deck of a sailboat, his kisses could take me to the brink of ecstasy and back again without ever touching any other part of my body. This relationship taught me even more about my sensuality and sexuality than I could have imagined. I was smitten by the timing of the action and also the sensation of being aroused just with this simple act. The one thing that broke us up (because I’m always asked this question) was that this was as far as the relationship would ever go; if I married him, it would have been a sexless marriage and for someone like me, the kiss was just the beginning to my desires and not the only part. But the relationship taught me how intimate and sharing this action was; far beyond intercourse or oral sex. This was a part of another person that was rarely shared with a stranger. Kissing by itself can make or break a relationship even more so than intercourse. The prefect kiss can send a partner over the top and needing more just knowing that this action will lead to even more scintillating temptations.
I wax nostalgic when I recall the moments when my partners have teased and tormented me in devilishly delicious manners and then just as I was about to either give up on release or them, they plant this aggressive and erotic kiss on me. That alone can take me to the brink of pleasure and beyond. This is why I feel that the art of kissing is so intimate. It provides the type of physical stimulation that no matter how much rubbing or vibrating may occur in a date, those actions are still not a part of the person interacting with another with extreme intimacy. Heavy petting or bondage activities are controlled, contrived and expected. But there is hint of personalizing the act once the honor of a kiss is engaged into play. Take the ‘play rape’ scenario where I’m often tied up or bound in various manners and my hair is pulled back and without warning my reward in the form of appreciation for my submission is a deep long kiss is brought into play. I generally turn my head from a client before this action can occur, as this line of intimacy is something that I feel should always remain special and never engaged in to the point that it feels like it’s work or the same as a foot massage at the day spa. A kiss should always remain special and shared with someone that truly arouses.
When a client hires me as a professional he isn’t looking to fall in love or find his next wife with, (although some say they are), but instead indulge in activities that their current partner may find shocking; so I provide that fantasy and make it a reality and my servitude is their reward and fulfillment without a kiss. Most would prefer to spank my cute behind than to worry about kissing me.
While this may not make sense to many and I can‘t try to clarify the art of kissing any further because to some kissing isn’t intimacy, rather something that they feel they expect from a partner or what they have paid for. But for those that feel as I do, that a kiss is the ultimate in intimacy and share that act with only a select few; the rewards of passion are sinfully delicious and a sexual bond is sealed that will make the rest of the activities only seem like foreplay until the next first kiss.
A kiss should only be shared when there is an extreme level of excitement and trust with another person rather than tried with every person that comes across your path. Try that advice and learn to experience what many already know.